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Newborn Lifestyle Photography | Columbus, GA | Ker-Fox Photography | Adoption: Meet Micah

What better location to shoot this new beginning, than in their new home. At the time the house wasn't even complete, no carpet, stickers still on windows, and contractors staining overhead beams while listening to Metallica. New house, new baby, new beginnings... From high school, college, marriage, and EACH of their children... I have continually been blessed by this family and their friendship through the years. Their battles with fertility, their miracle that is their first born and her testimony of life starting at a fragile 26 weeks, to the second round battle to conceive their second born, a son, both pregnancies happening on their own, by the grace of God after failed fertility treatments, and most recently years on the adoption roller coaster to bring this guy into their lives. This family's testimony, their continual strength and faith in the Lord to provide, they live it you guys. They are the REAL DEAL. To have had the honor of capturing the earliest days with all 3 of their children gives me goose-bumps, and I truly understand what an honor and privilege this task has been through the years.

My church friends, this family included, are the foundations of my business. I NEVER would be where I am today if it weren't for them, for them trusting me in the early years, for them to keep coming back to me time and time again, for them graciously letting me learn and try knew skills on them, and for them having endless patience on my turn around times due to free/discounted sessions. This may be a post for the Jones family, but I know my community group/small group friends will read this and I want to take this chance to thank you guys for all of your support with my photography. I owe so much of me standing here today, doing what I love, giving God all the glory, because of you all. Thank you for believing in me and trusting me with your families' memories!

Brandon and Katherine, you are an inspiration, I know that Wes and I "want to be like you guys when we grow up!"

I'm so glad Micah is here, the Lord has blessed him beyond measure bringing him into your home, into your arms, into your heart... and with all of your children I know this verse to be true: "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it" - Proverbs 22:6

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Birth Photography | Columbus, GA | Ker-Fox Birth | Twins | Mason + Carter

These babies are miracles. 4 and a half years in the making. Clients will often open up to me through the months I get to know them. Some are funny stories of how they found out they were pregnant and others are about the struggles to get pregnant. Rachel and Justin are letting me share the cliff notes of their struggle. When I asked Rachel if I could share her story, she said, "I have always prayed that out of our "struggle" I would be able to help someone else, maybe telling the story would help give someone else hope!". Rachel and Justin, high school sweethearts, married many years, tried for two years to get pregnant. Then finally they got the news they had been praying for, they were pregnant! But like so many times (and often never spoken of), they miscarried at 12 weeks. One thing I pray my readers and mommas know is that miscarriage is so much more common than most people know. You are not alone. And another thing, that baby was here on this earth, you were a momma, if even briefly. Give yourself time to grieve that loss. Rachel and Justin tried for another year to no avail, when she was finally diagnosed with endometriosis. She underwent surgery to try and correct complications, but was told In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) was their best bet at becoming pregnant. At the end of their IVF journey Rachel and Justin had 3 embryos, 2 of which were implanted resulting in these precious miracles. Shortly afterwards they found out that the 3rd embryo did not sustain... So for now, precious Carter and sweet Mason have made their world's complete. So when you watch this video, and you see these expressions. Understand, this is what 4 and half years of hopeful, joyous anticipation look like. This is also what God showing up looks like... moving mountains. And faith, endearing faith in the face of adversity.

I am so incredibly thankful I was able to shoot this birth. This was my last job before going on maternity leave myself, unsure if I could handle the physical strain... she was 35 weeks and I was 34 weeks. I ended up having my own son one day after her would be due date.

Rachel's water broke, and her scheduled c-section date went out the window! I had to rush to the hospital, as she was having regular contractions. In triage she was told she was already at 5 cm, Baby A was head down, but Baby A was transverse/breech, making a c-section necessary. What makes her birth story unique, was although it was a scheduled c-section, with her going into labor I was able to get some beautifully intense labor shots. And as crazy as it sounds, I think she was happy to know "what labor felt like".

Rachel was wonderfully supported the whole time by her husband and family. Both of the babies arrived safely thanks to the ever amazing and supremely dedicated Dr. Stephens. He also happens to be the first hands to ever touch my babies, as he welcomed both of my kiddos into this world. I adore the doctor he is and the level of care he gives his patients. It's inspiring.

Ok, back to the delivery details. Baby A was rocking along nicely, but Baby B needed a little help and went to the Special Care Unit for some oxygen for a few hours. Unfortunately they wouldn't let me in, so I got the settings squared away and handed daddy my camera. Thankfully he was able to snag a couple while in there to at least tell that small portion of his story.

Rachel has a sister, her expressions will make your heart burst at the seams. It's seeing their relationship that makes me wish I had a sister (don't worry Josh, a sister in addition to the awesome brother I have). It's also their relationship that made me daydream about these precious boys, and how close they will be as they grow up.

And the song, uh, the song... Hold Us Together by Matt Maher. Listen to the lyrics as you watch the images. This was Rachel and Justin's anthem through their journey with infertility, up to the joyous arrival of their perfect boys.

"Love will hold us together Make us a shelter to weather the storm And I'll be my brother's keeper So the whole world would know that we're not alone

This is the first day of the rest of your life This is the first day of the rest of your life 'Cause even in the dark you can still see the light It's gonna be alright, it's gonna be alright"

In the weeks following their birth, I've watched these two amazing people mould into phenomenal parents... wearing it so well, so naturally. Being parents to twins, is no walk in the park. But knowing what it took to get these boys, even the days/nights in the trenches, I'm sure, have glimmers of radiant joy for the craziness and love they have brought to their lives.

A special thanks to the nurses and doctors that allow me into their space. I am always grateful for the opportunity, but even more so when I am allowed to share the operating room, and with premie twins no less! I may have a "cool job", but I wouldn't have it without the trust and relationships built with the medical professionals in our area. I'm eternally grateful I get to do this job I love!

For more information on hiring me for your delivery, click HERE.

Song 1: Bryan & Katie Torwalt - You Saved My Soul

Song 2: Matt Maher - Hold Us Together

 

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Birth Photography | Columbus, GA | Ker-Fox Birth | Adelyn

IMG_2230Photographing a birth is always an honor, but being asked by a fellow photographer to capture the intricacies of their delivery takes that honor to a whole different level. Secondly, shooting a birth of a dear friend and his beautiful wife, who battled years with fertility to get pregnant, I was beyond thrilled to be given this responsibility.

As momma bravely battled wave upon wave of contractions, her and Matt graciously and candidly told me their testimony and trials of infertility. They spoke with such conviction, their faith was on display big time. It was truly something to see. Hearing them talk about the week to week, month to month, year to year disappointments and frustrations... the reality of the coming hours as they waiting for their daughter overwhelmed me. I know how much I prayed for my babies, how much I imagined what they would look like, how much I ached to hold them in my arms safely. But in an instant, I myself was humbled... I couldn't fathom the excitement, and anticipation they had in their hearts waiting to hold their sweet girl finally.

I thought the lyrics of this song were perfect.... "I wait patiently for you".

God is great, He is merciful, and he hears our prayers. I hope you enjoy their story. And for all those moms and dads out there waiting in anticipation for your baby, struggling with fertility, God can move mountains. Hang in there.

For more information on booking your birth session click HERE.

Song licensed through MusicBed.com Spencer Combs - You Are Mine

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