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Columbus, GA Birth Photographer | Ker-Fox Photography | Spurgeon

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Columbus, GA Birth Photographer | Ker-Fox Photography | Spurgeon

Completely not intentional that I have two back to back, multi-racial birth/adoption related stories to share. But brace yourselves for big brother by 9 months to steal the show when he smother's his new brother in kisses.

Brianne and Marc had a rough road to conceiving, they had tried for quite some time, but always knew adoption was part of their bigger plan, regardless of conceiving biologically. Baby Zeke came into their lives, and took the world's heart by storm. His big brown eyes, and a smile that lights up a room... not to mention the hugs he gave as he got older. 

I'm not sure if Brianne remembers this or not, but shortly after they adopted Zeke, they were at my house shooting his now famous Milk Bath session. Disappointedly, Brianne said she felt crampy, and was frustrated at the thought of her impending upcoming cycle. And I very stupidly (as I never would want to cause emotional pain on the subject) said, "Maybe it's implantation cramps!". Well little did either of us know, but she was in fact pregnant. Sweet baby Spurgeon was crashing his big bro's Milk Bath session!

I've never met two people more on fire for the Lord than these two. I mean they live it, they don't just talk the talk. I can't imagine two greater parents, for these two precious boys. The Lord knew what he was doing when He knit these lives together. Their family, their testimony will live out for years to come... as they show the world what God's love looks like. 

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columbus, ga birth photography | ker-fox photography | john

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columbus, ga birth photography | ker-fox photography | john

Sometimes life throws you curve balls, and specially with birth and it's ever unpredictable nature. Kristan was diagnosed with low platelets and was basically given two options for delivery... no epidural, or being put completely under for a c-section. Kristan is a neonatal nurse at St. Francis, and I would often see her up there working while I was shooting other births. I would always ask her if she was ready, knowing the options she faced. I think when you know you can't rely on an epidural, your head and heart embrace and prepare differently.

She was supported beautifully by her friends and colleagues throughout the day. Her husband was a constant force by her side, reading scripture cards to her, wiping her forehead, and doing hip/back compressions the entire labor. 

Kristan successfully navigated this birth naturally, and beautifully. I mean who am I really, but I was so so proud of her! 

She and Jeremy immediately blossomed into parenthood with such grace. I've loved watching this sweet boy grow, and I imagine I will continue to love watching him... just not to quickly for all of our sakes. 

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Columbus, GA Photographer | Copyright and Theft of Intellectual Property: Just Don't | Ker-Fox Photography

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Columbus, GA Photographer | Copyright and Theft of Intellectual Property: Just Don't | Ker-Fox Photography

This weekend I was the victim of blatant intellectual property theft. The most brazen example of copyright infringement I've personally had the "pleasure" of dealing with. My weekend was spent contacting lawyers, collecting evidence, and researching copyright laws.

If you know me personally, or have any sort of online relationship with me, you know one thing to be true. I GIVE. I give of my time. I give of my knowledge. I give of my heart. I GIVE. I can't tell you how many emails I get weekly from all over the country, heck even internationally... asking for advice: Is this a good camera? This lens is on sale, should I buy it? What gear do you use? What were your settings in this photo? How did you get started? What advice to do have for someone starting out? Do you offer mentoring sessions? I personally meet for coffee dates with local photographers to build relationships, and strengthen our community of creatives. I get questions that aren't even about photography. I take the time to answer late night texts about my clients and their breastfeeding journey. Why is he crying after he nurses? Is this normal, is that normal? What did you do when your baby _____?  I often take several minutes looking for links or helpful information that I can pass on to them. Or I just give of my time and listen, and pray with them. I answer their calls and cries while they navigate the trenches of new parenthood.

Now think of the HOURS I spend GIVING myself to others. Unpaid. And I LOVE doing it. It's what gives me pleasure. It's what the Lord has called me to do. To fully love and give of myself to others. To love others wholly. And I do. And I will continue to. Nothing will stop that, and there's nothing any individual can do to jade my heart into being selfish with my giving. The Lord has fully given to me, and blessed my life beyond measure. Therefore I will fully give of myself, and praise His name for these blessings. 

But I will tell you this. Because I do all of the above, if someone steals from me, I simply will not sit idly by and do nothing. It is ILLEGAL. 

Nicola Tesla, said it perfectly: " I don't care that they stole my idea, I care that they didn't have any of their own".

We can argue that there is no originality left in this world, which in some ways is true. We are constantly taking in life's experiences and interpreting them through our own mind's eye. Something you see triggers a chain reaction of thought and emotion, and on the other side you create. You output those experiences, into words, into art, into music, into how you live your life. Or at least that's how it should be. You don't take the lazy way of either stealing or doing what someone else did because it was successful for them. What is successful for me, may not be what is successful for you. I can promise you this, you find what YOU are passionate about. You look inside YOUR heart and ask how you can interpret that passion into art... there is where you will find your success. You keep chasing someone else's coat tails, and the only thing you can consume from that vantage point are their leftover crumbs. 

I've had more "coincidentally" "inspired" photographers walking a fine line between inspiration and theft come into my life in the last 4 months than I care to mention. I've had friends tell me: "Don't worry, their clients aren't your clients." Or, "Replication is the finest form of flattery." Or "Yeah, but their work isn't as good as yours". And while the rational side of my brain agrees with them. The artist in me wants to simultaneously scream and cry at the same time. Scream out of sheer frustration. And cry because I wish they could truly find their passion. As an artist, I want that for others. To be as happy as I am in my career. And as someone who has been doing this way longer than them, tell them will full honesty and grace, that they won't find that happiness as long as they're chasing someone else's success. 

I've had someone steal WORD FOR WORD, memories I wrote of the birth of my own children and tried to pass those memories off as their own. Can you imagine my heart, seeing those words on someone else's website?! I've had someone steal my entire business model, literally shoot for shoot/session for session. I've had people steal my watermark. I could go on an on. 

99.9% of the time I see these things, and I let them roll off my back and move on. Because in order to be successful you can't let these futile frustrations drag you down. But I say this as a cautionary tale to anyone reading this, nationally, internationally, or local. If you steal, most of the time you will be caught. TRUE artists are looking out for each other, they have your back, and they want to protect the industry. Heck, I had two photographer friends in different parts of the country contact me about the lady who copied my pricing and birth content off of my website. She removed it, but only after my lawyer sent her a cease and desist accompanied by a demand letter with an invoice for the use of my words she used for over 6 months.

I give grace. I give understanding. I give patience. I give leniency. I GIVE. But I won't tolerate stealing. And I will pursue legal action when needed. And I encourage other artists to do the same. This is our livelihood. This is how we provide for our families. How we feed our children, put clothes on their backs, and send them to school. This job at least for me, is about honoring the gifts the Lord has given me and try to use this platform as a mini-ministry. This job, at least for me, is a way to show my children they can be successful if they work hard. This job is a way to show my daughter she can be a wife, a mother, and have a career too. This job pays for my children to go to school. I do this NOT to make money to buy fancy things. I do this NOT to support spending habits. I do this to honor the Lord and my family. I do this because it's my passion and I would do it for free. 

Find YOUR passion. Find YOUR path. Put in the TIME... lasting success doesn't happen quickly. I've been at this for over 7 years (and that by other's standards is still in it's infancy). Do those things and you will find YOUR success.

And if you feel inspired by someone, reach out and let them know. Taking the time with such a simple gesture will bless their day more than you can imagine. 

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Birth Photography | Columbus, Ga | Ker-Fox Photography | Nellie

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Birth Photography | Columbus, Ga | Ker-Fox Photography | Nellie

Fierce. Determined. Stunning. All describe Reagan during her labor and well into her journey of Motherhood. She was, and is surrounded by strong women cheering her on every step of the way. Some of my favorite shots from this birth are the moments shared between her and her sister and mother. Reagan I am so unbelievably proud of you. How you handled labor, the grueling days that immediately followed, and now watching you rock at Motherhood. Thank you for letting me be there to love on you, support you, and bear witness to you becoming a mom. Nellie is precious and she's so blessed to call you hers!

Music Licensed through MusicBed.com and SongFreedom.com or used with permission. Phil Wickham - You're Beautiful

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